"A family located in the northern part of London wants to find an exceptional and skilled instructor to guide their most junior child on his early path to becoming an British gentleman."
Upon seeing this listing, you might easily miss the phrase "initial stages" as mere a turn of phrase.
But, it may be the most significant element of this unique employment listing, as it aims to hire a mentor for a infant.
Numerous of responses have now been sent in since the anonymous family posted their request for the highly paid tutor, who must be "an exceptional individual".
During the past few weeks, the post has gained attention in the news, with several wondering why?
Progressive Approach
The CEO, CEO and founder of Tutors International, which is assisting the family in their quest, said that notwithstanding first skepticism, he found the idea "far sighted", and "progressive".
When he spoke with the family, he mentioned they understood the unconventional character of their requirement, and how immature their son is.
However, they clarified that they "were unwilling to delay any longer" to engage a tutor, as they had held off until their firstborn was five, and by that age "cultural conditioning had already taken hold".
What precisely did the family refer to by "cultural predisposition"?
It's "comprehensive", he responded. "The manner you eat, the way you speak".
He said the firstborn had adopted "extremely delicate, unspoken signals" from the family, and had taken on their cultural habits. The family explained to him they wished to avoid history to happen again with their infant.
The intention: To engage a British tutor, who must speak with RP, to influence the baby right from the beginning.
Osmotic Learning
"A lot of the education at the beginning here is rather absorbed naturally," said the CEO.
It's through this osmosis that the family are aiming the child will pick up the British traits they want to instil.
Adam explained the tutor must be someone who attended "the right kinds of schools – similar types of schools as the family hope to send their son to".
"The tutor simply needs to be the suitable individual, they'll be carrying out things they aren't even aware they're doing, just naturally," he said.
Expense Not a Factor
The family informed Adam the successful candidate should ideally also have understanding of or interest in riding, winter sports, the arts and instrumental training so as to inspire the child in a broad spectrum of hobbies.
More than that though, he said the family hoped the tutor to enrol the child on a range of lessons so the child would be "horseback riding and learning an instrument by the time they are around three years old".
In the family's minds, helping their son develop into a "English gentleman" will lead to accomplishment and create opportunities.
"Considering the rights and wrongs of that, because it's certainly a status symbol," he adds.
But, despite all this instruction in "English culture", might the child absorb alleged cultural bias from the international family he resides with in any case?
"Yes", replied Adam. "The parents know this could fail, but they've simply adopted the perspective of, 'let's give it a go and we'll proceed as early as we can', because the price of it is not relevant," he said.
Impractical
A number of in the tutoring industry who share those doubts.
Peter Cui, head and founder of Blue Education, who also offer private tutors, stated that "the development of embracing two identities, or actually, discovering oneself, is something that must be grown into, not engineered."
Peter wrote that he had relocated from China to the United Kingdom at the age of 7 years old, and had been raised experiencing and embodying two backgrounds. He continued to be educated at a prestigious UK institution.
"The notion that one individual can function as a embodiment of English culture, an individual who can possibly transfer the attributes of a British gentleman onto a 12-month-old child, seems to me naive and impractical," he commented.
"In my experience, engaging a distinctly English tutor from early childhood will does not automatically achieve the result they hope for.
"I wasn't provided with such a tutor, and however I have been fortunate enough to experience many of the opportunities they desire for their son."
He added: "The reality is, personal identity should not be imposed from the outside; it must be chosen, and it must be internally driven."
Acquiring Englishness
Certainly, English culture is something the expert thinks can be taught – and sold.
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